性教育專題

1、男女大不同性教育的重要、常見的兩性議題、兩性常見的「性困擾」、兩性交往的壓力、性問題及性議題、常見的性迷思 、Sternberg愛情三元論、愛情量表、喜歡與愛有什麼不同。

2、兩「性」的生理差異生物學上的男性、生物學上的女性、男性器官生理發育、男性第二性徵發展、常見的男性生理問題、女性生殖器官生理發育、女性第二性徵發展、常見的女性生理問題。

3、約會與戀愛:兩性的吸引力、「初始效應」、「月暈效應」或光環效用、那些因素會影響「第一印象」、個人特質 、愛情投資學、社會交換理論、兩性交往的步驟、約會的功能、約會的行為、開始說些什麼、男女愛聊不同的話題、如何拒絕追求者。

4、性心理與性行為兩性「性愛順序」不同、性愛溝通、性自主、發揮「身體自主權」、婚前性行為、兩性歸因不同、性行為與規範、性標準、戀愛觀察期、戀愛中的性功能。

5、愛情的孕味:認識各種避孕方法、澄清錯誤避孕觀念,建立正確避孕態度,學習採用健康、有效的避孕方法。瞭解懷孕的過程、徵兆與孕期保健、生產過程。

6、性慾與情緒:性驅力、性焦慮、性壓抑、性幻想、性攻擊。

7、性取向:同性戀、異性戀、雙性戀、變性慾。

8、網交、一夜情、A片、性愛上癮症

9、性愛技巧:單調乏味的性愛、男女性愛需求大不同、愛撫的技巧、愛撫的順序、增進「性滿意度」的方法。

10、 婚姻中的性長期關係中的性功能 、性愛熱情減低的因素、性滿足、兩性「性滿足」大不同、性權力拔河、子女出生對婚姻關係的影響 、婚姻中的性迷思。

11、  性傳染病:容易得性病的人格特質、常見的性疾病、性病的預防。以及愛滋病的迷思、預防與了解。

12、 性高潮與性障礙:性慾疾患、性興奮疾患、高潮疾患、性疼痛疾患、性功能失調。

13、異常性行為:戀童癖、偷窺癖、暴露癖、摩擦癖、戀受癖、戀屍癖。

14、性騷擾與性侵害:常見的性騷擾情境、騷擾者的行為與說話模式、騷擾者的人格特質、性侵害的類型、人格特質、治療與預防。

15、 分 手與性:親密關係發展模式、關係持續或結束、「分手指數」大調查 、分手現象、從分手方式看個性、如何談判分手 、難以說再見的情人、從「失落」中「成長」的歷程。

教學目標
建立健康的愛與性之觀念與態度,進而增進對自我的認識,改善人際關係。
授課方式
課堂講授、分組討論,錄影帶討論、角色扮演與心得報告 。
評分標準
小組活動   20%
出席與討論 10%

期中報告   30%

期末考     40%

參考書目
林萃芬(2007)。實用愛情心理學。台北:方智。

林萃芬(2001)。你的溫柔只有我知道-透視親密心理。台北:時報。

周勵志(1998)。情慾開放怎麼做。台北:華視文化。

柯淑敏(2004)。兩性關係學。台北:楊智文化。

陳若璋(2001)。性犯罪心理學。台北:張老師文化。

葉肅科(2000)。一樣的婚姻,多樣的家庭。台北:學富。

Christopher Peterson(2004)。變態心理學。台北:桂冠圖書。

Hite﹐S.(1994)。海蒂單身遊戲報告(林淑貞譯)。台北:張老師文化。(原著出版於1987年)

John P. Wincze & Michael P.Carey 性功能障礙評量與治療指南(林蕙瑛譯)。台北:性林文化。

Sternberg﹐R.J.(2001)。邱比特的箭(黃芳田譯)。台北:遠流。(原著出版於1998年)

Sex Education

1.Differences between men and women:

The importance of sex education, common gender issues,   common “sexual problems”, stress in relationships, sexual issues and sexual problems, common sexual misconceptions, Sternberg’s  love triadic theory, love scale, how to distinguish love and like.

2.Biological differences between two genders:

The biological man and the biological woman, male genital development,  common male sexual problems, female genital development, common female sexual problems.

3.Dating and romantic relationship:

Sexual attraction, “the initial effect”, “the corona effect” or “the halo effect”, factors that affect the initial impression, personal traits, love investment theory, social exchange theory, steps of dating, functions of dating, dating behavior, the beginning conversations, preferred topic of men and women, how to turn down a suitor.

4.Sexual psychology and behavior:

Differences of sexual procedures between genders, sexual communication, sexual autonomy, “right of physical autonomy”, pre-marital sex, different attribution patterns between genders,  sexual behavior and the code of conduct, sexual standard, the observation period of a romantic relationship, sexual functions in a romantic relationship.

5.Pregnancy in a romantic relationship:

Getting to know contraceptive methods,  clarifying faulty contraceptive ideas, establishing correct contraceptive concepts, learning how to take healthy and effective contraceptive methods.  Learning about different stages, sings of pregnancy, care of pregnancy and birth.

6.Lust and emotion:

Sex drive,  sexual anxiety, sexual repression, sexual fantasy, sexual assault.

7.Sexual  orientation:

Homosexuality, heterosexuality, bisexuality,  transsexuality.

8.Internet relationship, one-night-stand, porno films, sex addiction.

9.Sexual technique:

Tedious sex,  differences of sexuality between genders, caressing techniques, order of        caressing, methods to improve sexual satisfaction.

10.Marital sex:

Sex in a long-term relationship, factors of decreased lust, sexual satisfaction, differences of sexual satisfaction between genders, tug-of-war of sexual power, effect of child birth on marriage, sexual misconception in marriage.

11.Sexual diseases:

Personal traits of those prone to contracting sexual diseases, common sexual diseases, prevention of sexual diseases, misconceptions , prevention and understanding of AIDS.

12.Sexual climax and sexual dysfunction:

Sexual urge disorder, sexual arousal disorder, climax disorder, sexual pain disorder, sexual dysfunction.

13.Abnormal Sexual behavior:

Paedophilia,  peeping addiction, exhibitionism, friction addiction, paraphilia, necrophilia.

14.Sexual harassment and sexual assault:

Common settings of sexual harassment, sexual harasser’s behavior and speaking patterns, sexual harasser’s personality traits, sexual assaulter’s personality traits, type, prevention and therapy of sexual assault.

15.Break-up and sex:

The development of an intimate relationship, continuing and ending of a relationship, the “break-up index”, signs of break-up, tell-tale signs of personality from the way one breaks up, how to negotiate a break-up, the tenacious lover, growth out of loss.

Course goals:

To establish wholesome concepts and attitudes toward love and sex,  to enhance self-awareness, and to improve interpersonal relationship.